Strong Enough to Handle the
Ugly
“If you wish to become a
mediator, counselor or any kind of helping person, know first what
people truly need of you. They need you to be strong enough to handle
the ugly part of life – to talk about these ugly issues as if they are
not taboo – and to inspire them to recover from the problems that they
used to think that they could not handle. It is a selfless and thankless
job while you are going through it. Later, those you help will thank you
many times in silence.” – M.K. Hope, page 44.
The Guided Method of
Mediation is a valuable tool for both professionals and students
alike. The book provides a new and better theory on mediation at all
levels, with more specific and comprehensive techniques detailed for
every aspect of mediation provision.
The Guided Method offers
A Return to the Original Ideals of ADR (Alternative Dispute
Resolution), seeking to inspire professionals to implement mediation
techniques that better address the inherent emotional challenges present
in all conflicts.
“To benefit those you serve, you
must have the courage to bring up the difficult subjects and have the
patience to allow the disputants to tell their story.”